A WOMAN has revealed that she slept with her husband’s brother at their cousin’s wedding and has no regrets.
The 27-year-old mother explained that it all started after she began to resent her husband, when he put on weight and started scrimping on his hygiene habits.
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The 27-year-old confessed her lack of remorse for the situation[/caption]
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And much to the shock of many, the anonymous woman has now taken things to the next level after she bonked her 30-year-old man’s family member, whilst he was at home looking after their eight-year-old daughter.
The couple have been married for seven years after she fell pregnant with his child at the age of 19.
Now, keen to open up on her infidelity, the mum took to social media to reveal all, leaving many totally horrified.
Posting online, on the Reddit forum r/relationship_advice, the woman titled her post ‘I slept with my husband’s brother’.
She then gave some context to her marriage as she explained: “We decided to get married shortly after I gave birth because we felt that we already started our family so why not make it official.
“I don’t want any more kids from him because I’ve been slowly resenting him for years.
“He has gained a lot of weight and is unhygienic. He dropped out of college to take care of our daughter but he never went back to finish his degree and now works a minimum wage job.
“Meanwhile, I’m a full-time nurse and managed to get my degree, so what’s his excuse?”
Not only is she “not attracted to him anymore and am only with him for our child”, but things soon took a turn for the worse when they were guests at his cousin’s wedding.
She admitted: “I was recently at his cousin’s wedding and have always been platonically close with my brother-in-law.
“His brother is on many levels more attractive than my husband but I ignored this in the past.
“But when I was at the wedding, I just couldn’t stop looking at my brother-in-law.
“He is single and younger, and I know he’s always found me attractive.
His brother is who I was meant to be with all along. He has a good career, he’s stable, he’s attractive and cares for my daughter like he’s the father
Reddit poster
“My husband had to go back home to stay with our daughter so I told him I’m going to stay and have some drinks as I worked all week.”
And after a few alcoholic drinks, things quickly went to the next level, as the mother confessed: “I got tipsy and started dancing with my brother-in-law, and just not caring anymore.
“I got my flirting in and my brother-in-law was reluctant at first but invited me to his hotel room and it happened.”
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
Clearly unremorseful for her actions, she acknowledged: “I haven’t told my husband. No, I don’t regret it.
“His brother is who I was meant to be with all along. He has a good career, he’s stable, he’s attractive and cares for my daughter like he’s the father.”
Unsure on what to do, she shared: “I want to be with my brother-in-law but if I tell my husband, the whole family will hate me and I may lose custody of my daughter/my brother-in-law will cut ties with me.
“What do I do?”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left open-mouthed by the woman’s confession and many eagerly flocked to the comments to share their thoughts and advice.
One person said: “Best advice is file for divorce and move out. Split custody and just start your new life. Whether your BIL wants to be a part of it or not, it’s up to him and you to eventually tell your husband’s family.”
You are a horrible person and I hope everyone finds out and cuts you off
Reddit user
Another advised: “Go to your husband and tell him what happened. Be an adult and own up to it.”
Meanwhile, a third simply agreed: “You need to tell him.”
At the same time, nasty trolls were out in full force and were keen to slam the mother’s actions.
One user snapped: “My god, I’ve worked a lot of jobs and met a lot of horrible people but you’re definitely getting high up there.”
A second chined in: “You are a horrible person and I hope everyone finds out and cuts you off.”
Whilst another remarked: “For starters don’t bother asking us for help. You chose to do it and go behind your husband like that. You deal with it. Disgusting.”
