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I’m tattooed all over & even removed my NOSE to keep in a little jar… people can’t believe the difference 4 years makes

A WOMAN has left people stunned after sharing her incredible transformation in just four years.

Toxii is covered from head to toe with tattoos, and the top half of her body is almost entirely blacked out with ink.

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Body modification fan Toxii has stunned people with her before and after snaps[/caption]
Before and after photos of a woman with extensive face and body tattoos.
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The above ‘before’ shows Toxii before she embarked on her new appearance, in 2019[/caption]
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Now she’s confident enough to show her body off in teeny tiny bikinis[/caption]

She’s also got various piercings and body modifications, including having her nose removed, tattooing her eyes and tongue, having implants which look like horns on her forehead, and having her tongue split in half.

But in a post on Instagram, Toxii revealed that she hasn’t always been so alternative, as she shared a snap of what she looked like back in 2019.

In place of the tattoos and piercings was a fresh face, long blonde hair and soft glam make-up.

A stark contrast to her tattooed facade now, complete with raven black locks.

And in the comments section on the post, people were stunned by how much she’d changed in just a short amount of time.

“You were so beautiful before,” one person wrote.

“What on Earth made you do this to yourself?”

“Why do you hate yourself?” another questioned.

As a third said: “I don’t understand how you can make these mods in such a short time.

“I think these decisions are best made over a longer period – it gives the body mind and soul time to adjust to the change and make a healthy choice on continuing.

“This quick impulsiveness breeds discontent and regret.”

“I just think: WHY?” someone else mused.

While others wondered if there is something darker going on.

“The only explanation for this is the fact that she’s possessed and has a deep strong poltergeist possessing her,” one wrote.

“There is no other need for this much body modification and Satanic rituals to be done without attachment of the ‎Unknown.”

“Very bad – like Satan,” another agreed. “This woman, you going straight to hell.”

Are eyeball tattoos dangerous?

Eyeball tattooing is an incredibly dangerous and rare procedure.

It is unlike other tattoos because it involves injecting ink into the think layer of tissue that covers your eyeball.

The injected ink then spreads throughout the eyelid, however, there is a risk that it could spread beyond the injection sites, and cause permanent damage.

Eyeball tattooing has been banned or restricted in some countries, and many tattoo artists are uncomfortable with carrying out the procedure.

“You look like an alien,” a third wrote.

In another post on Instagram, Toxii showed herself being interviewed by street artist Devon Rodriguez, who asked which of her body modifications had hurt the most in terms of healing.

“What inspired you to get modifications?” Devon asked.

“Because I like to be imperfect and I think that imperfections make you unique.

“Did those hurt, the ones in the forehead?”

To which Toxii replied: “No, not at all. I think that my nose removal was way worse”.

She also revealed it took around “eight weeks” to heal after the operation.

“Did you keep the nose?” Devon asked.

With Toxii replying: “I have all my body parts, in like little jars, yeah.”

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Her nose removal was one of the most painful things she’s had done, and took eight weeks to heal[/caption]
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She’s also had her tongue tattooed black and split down the middle[/caption]
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In an interview, Toxii admitted she kept her nose in a little jar after it had been removed[/caption]

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All the cleaning jobs you MUST do ahead of the spring clean – as expert reveals the 10 grossest spots in YOUR home

WITH spring just around the corner, it’s nearly time to bid farewell to winter and welcome in those sunnier days.

And with that, many Brits will be gearing up to spring-clean their homes to let that sunlight in.

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Danielle Mason has given her top cleaning tips ahead of spring[/caption]

According to a survey by Thane UK, more than 93% of British households engage in a major spring cleaning exercise at least once a year.

But, unsurprisingly, over half of Brits dread the thought of doing it.

However, that doesn’t have to be the case, as Danielle Mason, a cleaning expert with 20 years of experience, believes that the key is to start now to make your life easier.

She explains: “Why wait for spring to start your spring cleaning?

“Getting ahead now means you can refresh your space, clear out the winter clutter, and step into the new season feeling organised and energised.

“Plus, tackling it early gives you more time to enjoy the brighter days when they arrive!”

Here, in her own words, Danielle reveals her top cleaning hacks that everyone should be doing now, and the 10 grossest areas people always forget about.

Declutter First

Before diving into deep cleaning, take the time to declutter your home.

Go through each room methodically, sorting items into three categories: donate, recycle, or discard.

Be honest about what you use and need; if something hasn’t been touched in over a year, it’s likely time to let it go.

A clutter-free space makes cleaning more effective and gives your home an instant refresh.

Tackle One Room at a Time

Spring cleaning can feel overwhelming, but breaking it down into manageable tasks helps.

Instead of trying to clean everything in one day, focus on one room per week leading up to spring.

Start with high-traffic areas such as the kitchen and living room, then move on to bedrooms, bathrooms, and storage spaces.

Wash Walls and Skirting Boards

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There are areas in your home that should not be missed[/caption]

Over the winter months, walls and skirting boards accumulate dust, grime, and scuff marks.

Use a damp microfibre cloth with mild soap or a mix of warm water and vinegar to gently wipe them down.

Pay extra attention to corners and areas near heating vents, which tend to collect more dirt.

Deep Clean Fabrics

Soft surfaces can trap dust, allergens, and odours.

Launder curtains, upholstery, and bedding, including often-overlooked items such as pillows and mattress protectors.

If your sofa or armchairs have removable covers, check the care labels and give them a proper wash.

For delicate fabrics, consider using a fabric refresher or vacuuming with an upholstery attachment.

Refresh Carpets and Rugs

Carpets and rugs harbour dust, pet dander, and allergens, making regular deep cleaning essential.

Start by vacuuming thoroughly, then spot-clean any stains using a gentle carpet cleaner or a bicarbonate of soda and vinegar solution.

If your carpets need extra care, consider renting a steam cleaner or hiring professionals for a deep clean treatment before spring allergies set in.

Sanitise High-Touch Areas

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Don’t forget about the areas above eye level[/caption]

Germs and bacteria accumulate on frequently touched surfaces like light switches, remote controls, door handles, and cupboard handles.

Wipe these areas down with a disinfectant wipe or a spray made with diluted surgical spirit.

Don’t forget about mobile phones, keyboards, and tablets—they’re some of the germiest surfaces in the home!

Clean Out Kitchen Appliances

Your kitchen appliances work hard year-round, so give them some TLC.

Empty and wipe down the fridge, tossing out-of-date items and organising the shelves.

Descale the kettle and coffee machine with vinegar and water, degrease the oven and microwave, and don’t forget to check the dishwasher filter for trapped food particles.

Don’t Forget the Air

After months of closed windows, indoor air can become stale.

Start by changing your extractor fan filters to improve air quality and efficiency.

Dust ceiling fans and vents, as these collect a surprising amount of buildup over time.

Finally, open windows for fresh air circulation, letting in natural light and a refreshing spring breeze.

10 Grossest Areas People Forget to Clean

By Danielle Mason, who has 20 years of experience

Under and Behind the Fridge
Crumbs, dust, and spills accumulate over time, attracting pests and creating bad odours.

Shower Curtain & Liner
These collect mildew and soap scum but are often overlooked. Wash or replace them regularly to keep your bathroom fresh.

Toothbrush Holder
One of the germiest places in the bathroom, filled with bacteria and toothpaste residue. Rinse and disinfect it weekly.

Dishwasher Filter
Food particles and grease build up, leading to unpleasant smells and reduced efficiency. Remove and clean the filter every few weeks.

Washing Machine Seal
The rubber gasket traps mould, mildew, and detergent buildup. Wipe it down with white vinegar and leave the door open to air dry.

Light Switches and Remote Controls
Touched daily but rarely cleaned, making them germ hotspots. Wipe them down with disinfectant regularly.

Under the Sofa Cushions
Crumbs, dust, and even lost items hide in the cracks. Remove the cushions and vacuum thoroughly.

Kitchen Sink & Plughole
Food residue builds up, causing bad odours. Pour boiling water, bicarbonate of soda, and vinegar down the drain to freshen it.

Ceiling Fans
Dust piles up on the blades and gets redistributed into the air when turned on. Use a microfibre cloth or pillowcase to clean them easily.

Doormats
They trap dirt and bacteria from shoes but are rarely washed or vacuumed. Shake them out weekly and deep clean them every month.

Head to her Instagram pages for more cleaning information @missmasoncleaning @daniellemasonuk

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Who Wants To Be A Millionaire viewers fuming after star uses three lifelines on ‘easy’ question – would you have got it?

WHO Wants To Be A Millionaire viewers were left raging after a contestant burned through all three lifelines on a question they deemed ridiculously easy.

Host Jeremy Clarkson returned on Saturday night for a star-studded edition of the popular game show.

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The Olympic legend burned through three lifelines on a question viewers thought was a breeze[/caption]
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She was asked which 1980s film had sequels titled Afterlife and Frozen Empire[/caption]
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Even host Jeremy Clarkson was stumped[/caption]

Olympic champion cyclist Dame Laura Kenny and Channel 4 News anchor Krishnan Guru-Murthy tried to win up to £1 million for their chosen charities.

However, ITV viewers were left gobsmacked when the Olympic legend burned through three lifelines on a question they thought was a breeze.

The five-time gold medalist stormed through the early rounds but hit a roadblock at £16,000 when asked which 1980s film had sequels titled Afterlife and Frozen Empire.

Despite having Ghostbusters as an option, she turned to host Jeremy Clarkson, 50:50, and even phoned a friend – leaving fans at home in disbelief.

Jeremy admitted that he was not 100% certain either, but ruled out The Terminator and Top Gun.

Fans flocked to social media to slam the blunder, with many insisting they knew the answer straight away.

One viewer raged: “How the heck did neither this Olympian or Jeremy Clarkson know that Afterlife and Frozen Empire are Ghostbusters movies?

“The latter literally came out last year! Such an easy question it could have been a thousand pound one.”

Another added: “Was ‘Afterlife’ not a bit of a clue as to what the answer might be?” 

A third penned: “She should have phoned a friend and he would have said who you going to call and she would have said Ghostbusters.”

A fourth chimed in: “Using the lifelines on these questions is just madness.”

A fifth wrote: “Stop faffing about! It’s Ghostbusters!!!” 

Despite the blunder, Dame Laura still walked away with £8,000 for her chosen charity, The Ectopic Pregnancy Trust.

Not quite the million-pound jackpot – but a solid effort!

Who Wants To Be A Millionaire? Celebrity Special is available to stream on ITVX.

Hardest Quiz Show Questions

Would you know the answers to some of quizzing TV's hardest questions

  • Who Wants To Be A Millionaire – Earlier this year, fans were left outraged after what they described as the “worst” question in the show’s history. Host Jeremy Clarkson asked: “From the 2000 awards ceremony onwards, the Best Actress Oscar has never been won by a woman whose surname begins with which one of these letters?” The multiple choice answers were between G, K, M and W. In the end, and with the £32,000 safe, player Glen had to make a guess and went for G. It turned out to be correct as Nicole Kidman, Frances McDormand and Kate Winslet are among the stars who have won the Best Actress gong since 2000. 
  • The 1% Club – Viewers of Lee Mack’s popular ITV show were left dumbfounded by a question that also left the players perplexed. The query went as follows: “Edna’s birthday is on the 6th of April and Jen’s birthday falls on the 15th of October, therefore Amir’s birthday must be the ‘X’ of January.” It turns out the conundrum links the numbers with its position in the sentence, so 6th is the sixth word and 15th is the fifteenth word. Therefore, Amir’s birthday is January 24th, corresponding to the 24th word in the sentence.
  • The Chase – The ITV daytime favourite left fans scratching their heads when it threw up one of the most bizarre questions to ever grace the programme. One of the questions asked the player: “Someone with a nightshade intolerance should avoid eating what?” The options were – sweetcorn, potatoes, carrots – with Steve selecting sweetcorn but the correct answer was potatoes.

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Rangers ‘put coach in charge of training as two assistants follow Philippe Clement OUT of Ibrox’

IT’S day one of the post-Philippe Clement era at Rangers.

With the Gers now searching for a new permanent manager, there’s a need for someone to step up to lead first team affairs.

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Philippe Clement has been sacked as Rangers manager[/caption]
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Issame Charai is taking training this morning[/caption]
Rangers assistant manager Issame Charai with Stephan Van Der Heyden and Alex Rae.
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Stephen van der Heyden and Alex Rae have reportedly left the club[/caption]

For now, that man appears to be Issame Charai.

The 42-year old was appointed assistant manager to Clement just a month ago.

The Rangers Review are reporting that Charai is the man who will lead first team training at Auchenhowie today.

The report also claims that coaches Alex Rae and Stephan van der Heyden have also LEFT Rangers.

They both worked under Clement during the Belgian’s entire spell in charge.

That spell came to an end when Clement was sacked last night in the wake of Saturday’s dire 2-0 defeat to St Mirren at the weekend.

Those exits leave Charai as the most senior first team coach left at Rangers.

While he’s taking training, it has yet to be confirmed whether or not he will be installed as the club’s official interim manager.

Charai joined Rangers following the exit of Clement’s previous assistant, Andries Ulderink.

An experienced coach, Charai was in charge of Morocco’s under-23 team between 2023 and 2024 and led them to the U23 Africa Cup of Nations title.

Charai spent his entire playing career in Belgium and after a spell coaching in Saudi Arabia, spent several years back in Belgium as No2 to Marc Brys at various clubs.

The Moroccan national job was his first job as a No1 and he most recently worked as assistant at Strasbourg in France.

Rangers chiefs are of course locked in takeover talks with supremos from the San Francisco 49ers.

That will likely lead to a delay in any permanent manager being appointed.

In terms of that permanent gig, SunSport revealed last night that former Gers defender Russell Martin is one of the names in the frame to land the role.

He’s available after departing Southampton earlier this season.

Former Rangers manager Steven Gerrard was installed as the early bookmakers’ favourite following the decision to sack Clement.

Keep up to date with ALL the latest news and transfers at the Scottish Sun football page

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Did Shaw Die in Person of Interest? Her Fate in the Series

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Because of its gripping plot and erratic character outcomes, “Person of Interest” kept viewers on edge. Sarah Shahi’s role Sameen Shaw is among the most captivating in the series. She was a popular favorite because of her bold personality and witty humor. Nonetheless, one of the most significant queries that viewers have continued to ask […]

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‘I’d drop everything for Rangers’ – Ally McCoist says he would jump at the chance to replace Philippe Clement at Ibrox

ALLY McCOIST has told Rangers he is prepared to quit all of his media commitments at the drop of a hat to take over again at Ibrox.

The Rangers legend, 62, was shocked to discover he’s one of the many names in the frame to replace Philippe Clement in Govan.

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Ally McCoist has reacted to Philippe Clement’s dismissal[/caption]
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Clement was shown the door by Rangers on Sunday[/caption]

The Belgian was finally sacked by Ibrox chiefs on Sunday following Saturday’s 2-0 home defeat to St Mirren.

Patrick Stewart and Fraser Thornton eventually came to the decision to axe Clement last night and have already started the process of finding his replacement.

Several former Rangers men have been linked with the job in the hours following, with Steven Gerrard the favourite and sacked Southampton boss Russell Martin also in the running.

McCoist has found himself being touted for the role as a heavy outsider by the bookmakers too.

He found out this morning that he’s actually priced at 33/1 to become the next Gers manager.

It would see him make a stunning return to the Ibrox hot-seat after already spending three years in the position previously.

He was the Rangers manager between 2011 and 2014 after Walter Smith stepped down.

McCoist was quizzed on talkSPORT this morning if he would be interested in replacing Clement at Ibrox.

But the Rangers legend admitted there’s one thing standing in his way.

He doesn’t want to leave his radio pal Jeff Stelling.

However, he joked that even he’s tempted to put some money on himself given the odds.

McCoist said: “I tell you what, it would break Jeff’s heart. I might put a couple of quid on that if it’s 33/1!

“But I couldn’t do it to Jeff.”

Stelling laughed: “Well you couldn’t take the drop in salary, could you Coisty?”

PHILIPPE CLEMENT: THE NUMBERS

GAMES: 86
WINS: 55
DRAWS: 16
LOSSES: 15
WIN PERCENTAGE: 65%
TROPHIES: 1 (2023 League Cup)

He added: “He wouldn’t just be leaving me. He would be leaving talkSPORT, TNT, and his EIGHT other day jobs as well!”

Earlier in the breakfast show though, McCoist did reveal he would jump at the chance of becoming the Rangers manager again.

Stelling asked him if he’d drop his MANY commitments to return to Ibrox.

Laughing, McCoist said: “Listen, you know me, I’d drop everything for Rangers! You included!”

Keep up to date with ALL the latest news and transfers at the Scottish Sun football page

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‘There’s going to be blood shed, and it ain’t gonna be mine’ – Anthony Joshua still thinks Tyson Fury fight will happen

ANTHONY JOSHUA has vowed to spill Tyson Fury’s blood in an epic Battle of Britain – if his rival comes out of retirement.

The pair’s long-overdue domestic dust-up seemed finally set to come to fruition after Fury’s back-to-back losses to Oleksandr Usyk last year.

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Tyson Fury was on course for a grudge match with Anthony Joshua before announcing his retirement last month[/caption]
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AJ isn’t buying the Gypsy King’s retirement and reckons he will fight again[/caption]
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The Watford warrior insists he’ll shed Fury’s blood if they do end up fighting[/caption]

But Fury threw a major spanner into the works last month by announcing his FIFTH retirement, although AJ isn’t giving up hope of putting a brutal beating on the Gypsy King.

The former two-time unified heavyweight champion told iFL TV: “I feel like it’s the best fight [for me].

“People might say [Joseph] Parker, people might say – I don’t know.

“But I think Fury, commercially, is a great fight and it’s a great man’s fight as well. So I think it makes sense.

“You could say it’s been years in the making. But listen, the heavyweight division has been thriving.

“And why I say it’s probably still a great fight is as I said Parker is, for me, a great story of someone that never gives up.

“And the thing is, there is going to be one winner and one loser and there’s going to be bloodshed. And it ain’t gonna be mine.”

Fury, 36, has remained radio silent on his fighting future since his latest hanging up of the gloves.

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Tyson Fury vs. Anthony Joshua boxing stats comparison.

But Joshua isn’t convinced we’ve seen the last of the Wythenshawe warrior.

“Has he retired with the possibility of coming back?” Joshua asked when quizzed about Fury’s retirement “Yes.

“Has he retired? Yes. Is he going to come back next month? No. In short, he might come back but he is retired.”

Joshua, 35, hasn’t set foot inside the ring since his brutal fifth-round KO defeat to former sparring partner Daniel Dubois last September.

A February rematch with Triple D was on the cards before his team convinced him to rest and recover from niggling injuries.

And he’s keeping his cards close to his chest over when he’ll next be back in the squared circle.

When asked about his ring return, AJ said: “More fights, this is my life, this is what I do.

“Right now I sit outside and I watch and then I’ll make my return one day.

“Right right I sit back as a fan and watch the great people in the sport I love.”

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Noughties pop group looks VERY different 18 years on from catchy hit singles – but can you guess who they are?

A NOUGHTIES pop group look unrecognisable 18 years on from their catchy hit singles – and they’re headlining a huge charity festival.

Originally formed in Indianapolis, Indiana, in 2003, The Hoosiers consists of Irwin Sparkes and Alan Sharland.

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The Hoosiers look unrecognisable 18 years on from their catchy hit singles
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They first shot to fame with their 2007 debut album, The Trick to Life, which reached number one on the UK Albums Chart.

Their lead single, Worried About Ray, became an instant classic, peaking at number five on the UK Singles Chart, followed by the hit Goodbye Mr A, which cemented their status in the indie music scene.

Despite their success, the band took a few twists and turns in their career, parting ways with their record label in 2011 and independently releasing music.

This includes the albums The Illusion of Safety, The News from Nowhere and Confidence, their most recent release in 2023.

Over the years, they’ve experimented with different sounds and even dabbled in side projects.

Frontman Irwin launched his solo act White Tail Falls, while he and Alan also performed as comedy duo Felix and The Scootermen at the Edinburgh Fringe.

A previous iteration of the band even included members Tony Byrne, Tom Easey, Martin Skarendahl, Sam Swallow and Toby Smith.

Now, The Hoosiers are making a major comeback, not only with a new tour but also as the headline act for the Test Fest Music Festival 2025.

In a promotional video for their gigs, the pair certainly look different.

And, the charity event, taking place at Taunton Rugby Club on June 21, is organised by It’s in the Bag Cancer Support to raise awareness for testicular cancer.

The two-piece, originally formed by Irwin Sparkes and Alan Sharland in 2003, will be headlining as part of their The Illusion of Safety 15-year anniversary tour.

Charity founder and event organiser Sue Brand said: “2025 is It’s in the Bag’s 10th birthday as an independent charity, and what a great way to celebrate with The Hoosiers being our headline act.

“There are a few more exciting bands and artists to come, so don’t miss out on tickets. This year more than any, we encourage you to buy early.”

The festival has been recognised by the UK Festival Awards, Stand Out Magazine, and the BISFF Film Awards, and aims to attract attendees from across the South West.

Many survivors and their families are expected to attend.

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Martin Skarendahl, Irwin Sparkes, Alfonso Sharland made up the line-up in 2013[/caption]
Album cover: The Hoosiers, Goodbye Mr A.
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Goodbye Mr A cemented their status in the indie music scene[/caption]

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My young lover said I reminded him of his mum as we kissed… it was such a turn-off and I’m thinking of dumping him

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner’s passing comment while we were kissing and cuddling turned my stomach – and made me seriously think about dumping him.

We were both getting turned on when he said I reminded him of his mum. To say it killed the moment is an understatement.

There is a significant age gap between us but I want to be his partner, not his mum.

Besides, I’ve met his mum. She might only be nine years older than me but she looks and acts like an old lady. I was insulted.

I am 41, he is 28 and we’ve always had a brilliant sex life.

We have been very happy for nine months and he made it clear he wanted me right from the start.

We see one another most days and our feelings have grown over the months.

He would love to move in with me but I worry about my children, who are only 18 and 15.

They get on well with him but I have concerns about our age gap.

He says I remind him of his mum because I make him feel loved and secure.

He insists he doesn’t see me as a mother figure. Still, I am worried about us living together.

If it doesn’t work, the emotional upheaval for me and my children would be devastating.

Are relationships like ours ever successful?

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DEIDRE SAYS: There are lots of couples who do have happy, lasting relationships, despite their age difference.

While age gaps, where one partner is in their late teens or early twenties, raise serious concerns of a potential power imbalance in the relationship, your boyfriend is in his late-20s and will have significant life experience.

As for the future, there are no guarantees in relationships. He may change down the line. And, of course, so might you.

Many of us are drawn to people who remind us of a parent without realising it, primarily because we find them comfortable and familiar.

It is time to clear the air and discuss your concerns with your boyfriend.

The main issue for age-gap relationships is when the couple are at different life stages.

So talk about whether he wants marriage and children of his own. These are important issues to iron out before getting more involved.

My support pack Age Gaps – Do They Matter? will help.

Get in touch with Deidre

Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

Send an email to deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

FIANCÉE SCORED WITH RUGBY PAL

DEAR DEIDRE: I KNEW my fiancée got on well with a close friend of mine – but I didn’t think they would end up secretly having sex.

I’m 29, she is 26 and we’ve been together for four years. I met my friend through our local rugby team. My fiancée often comes to watch our games, standing on the touchline cheering us on.

The two of them got on well but nothing more. We have been talking about starting a family and decided over Christmas we would be happy if she got pregnant. But a short time later, she started to get depressed and upset.

I thought she’d changed her mind about wanting a baby, but then she broke down in tears and admitted she had cheated on me with my mate. I was gobsmacked, but she insisted it was a stupid mistake and she still loves me.

She has apologised numerous times but doesn’t show any real regret.

I can’t help but think if she really wanted to be with me, she would be begging for forgiveness.

But she refuses to talk about what they did.

I want to believe her when she says that it won’t happen again.

She has suggested we have some space apart, but surely we need to be spending more time together if we are going to make it through this.

DEIDRE SAYS: You’ve been doubly betrayed, but your girlfriend doesn’t seem to understand how shocked and hurt you are.

You are dealing with her infidelity, and also the fact she has sexual feelings for your friend.

It is possible to get over an infidelity but being apart will solve nothing. Is she suggesting having some “space” so she can back away if she has a change of heart?

She needs to be committed to your relationship and to reassure you that this is what she wants.

At the very least, she owes you honesty. My support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help.

EX USES PET AS EXCUSE TO SEE ME

DEAR DEIDRE: AS much as I love our dog, my ex keeps turning up at the flat asking if I’d like to see it.

Now that our relationship has ended, I just want to move on.

I’m 33 and she is 29. I ended it three months ago, after we’d been together for two years. I often work long hours so it was better for the dog to go with her.

One day she turned up saying she wanted me to see “our labrador”.

We decided to stay friends but she is always messaging, sending photos of the dog and turns up at my flat unannounced.

I have recently joined a dating app but I’m not sure how to tell her.

Should I just block her?

DEIDRE SAYS: Your ex might be hoping you will have a change of heart and take her back.

She’s using the dog as an excuse to see you.

It is crucial to set clear boundaries. Kindly but firmly tell her that you need space and want to end all contact, rather than cruelly blocking her.

My support pack Standing Up For Yourself should help you get this over to her.

HOPE FOR BABY IS IGNORED

DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE always knowing I want more children, my partner keeps going on about having a vasectomy.

I am 34 and he is 35. We have been together for five years. He already has a daughter from his previous relationship and we have a son together.

They get on well together, but I would love my boy to have a full sibling.

I don’t like vasectomies because they go against nature. My partner just laughs when I tell him this.

He doesn’t seem to value my opinions or my feelings.

I am on the Pill but I feel as though he doesn’t trust me enough to take it.

I love him but he ignores my longing for another child. How do we get past this?

DEIDRE SAYS: While I understand your desire to have another baby, it wouldn’t be right to force this on him. It wouldn’t be fair to him or the child.

When one partner wants more children and the other doesn’t, it can be a deal breaker. Does your partner really want the snip? It’s all very well to talk about this but going through with it is a different matter.

Tell him that being denied another child will hurt you deeply.

Ask him why he is so against the idea and make sure he understands that a vasectomy is final.

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World Open snooker 2025 LIVE RESULTS: Judd Trump in action TODAY as World No1 looks to secure stunning three-peat

THE World Open is underway in Yushan, with some huge names eyeing the £175,000 jackpot.

Later today, Judd Trump takes on Long Zehuang in the last-64 of the tournament.

The World No1 is eyeing up a stunning three-peat in the World Open, having the last two editions of the tournament in 2019 and 2024.

  • Start time: From 1.30am GMT
  • TV channel: TNT Sports 3
  • Live stream: discovery+

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