A SCOT is confident her second pregnancy will be completely drama free – as she’s doing it all without a fella.
Heather McCartney, 36, has longed for a second child and feared it would never happen because she hadn’t met the right guy.
But her motherhood journey turned when she realised she didn’t need to enter a relationship to give her daughter the younger sibling she’s always wanted.
Now she’s expecting after handpicking a donor based on criteria she requested like age, health and other non-negotiables.
Heather, who left Ayrshire for Australia after beating blood cancer and escaping her violent ex-husband, said: “My daughter has been begging for a sibling for years, and I just feel like it’s time to expand the family.
“I’ve always wanted more kids, and the love I have for my daughter makes me want to give her that sibling bond.
“Plus, who wouldn’t want more cuddles, chaos, and laughter, right?
“After seven years of being single and focusing on healing and building myself back up, I’ve realised that I’m strong enough to do this solo.
“I’ve had my fair share of drama in relationships, and I’m in a place now where I just want a happy, peaceful, and loving family environment.
“Using a donor felt like the right choice for me to get the family I’ve always wanted, without any of the stress or complications.”
She added: “Relationships can be wonderful, but they can also come with a lot of stress and drama.“I’ve had my fill of that, to be honest.
“Going the solo route means I’m in control, and there’s no drama—just me, my daughter, and our future little one.
“It’s definitely easier in a way that I get to decide how things go, without any of the ups and downs that can come with dating.
“Every woman’s journey is different, and for me, this path has felt empowering.
“It’s all about trusting yourself and what you want for your future. If a woman feels ready to go this route, I say go for it.
“The love you have to offer is all that matters, and you can totally create a beautiful family on your own terms.”
The former Maxim model hit headlines after she stripped off at the 2014 AFL Grand Final and spent the night in a police cell.
But she was free after a brief stint in jail and paying a small fine.
